都说今年经济环境不景气，但是，小耐姐身边的朋友，更多是签了大单，升职加薪，捷报频传，来嘚瑟了，甚至show了show双十一已经清空的购物车。令人振（tao）奋（yan）的是，他们也是正常做五休二的工作！
作为职场人，如何平衡高薪工作和优雅生活？崇拜脸软磨硬泡数回，知道什么叫外在收入和底层思考逻辑关联性。你怎么过这一天，就可能怎么过这一生。亲爱的企业精英，你的周末是在加班，还是在甜蜜约会呢？
我喜欢星期一的早晨，阳光洒在脸上，轻盈的脚步走向office。很开心，我和我的公司，都在进步。Joseph Campbell认为“找到你喜欢做的事，对它充满热情，并且做得更多”。双十一之前，这一天，之后，我都是怀着这种对事情的期待和对生命的敬畏，努力着......
Follow your bliss. If you do follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while waiting for you, and the life you ought to be living is the one you are living. When you can see that, you begin to meet people who are in the field of your bliss, and they open the doors to you. I say, follow your bliss and don’t be afraid, and doors will open where you didn’t know they were going to be. If you follow your bliss, doors will open for you that wouldn’t have opened for anyone else.”
This is one of my favourite quotes by Joseph Campbell and I often simplify it by saying ‘find what you love doing and are passionate about and do more of it’. That is my definition of bliss. Waking up every day and regardless of what happens, knowing that I am pursuing the things that I love doing that make a difference and spending time with the people that I love and enjoy while doing them.
The world is full of people who are unhappy in their jobs and their relationships who can’t even imagine a life that is different. People who spend their days looking forward to the weekend and dreading Mondays. Creating eco-systems and environments that are screaming at them to make a change until eventually the decision is made for them. They are so fearful of taking a step into the unknown that it often takes a serious illness or dramatic catalyst for them to take notice and make the change.
Do you think that the person who is made redundant, demoted or sacked really loves their job and has been working to their full potential with enthusiasm and bliss?
Most people know someone in their life who has been through something ‘traumatic’ or ‘life threatening’ forcing them to rethink everything and choose a different path and the majority of them when looking back say ‘I am so glad that happened because now I love my life and am doing what I always wanted to do’.
Our conscious mind is constantly making decisions based on our subconscious fears, patterns and beliefs. So for example if we have been brought up to believe that we should be earning a certain amount of money by a specific age or own a house / be married / have children etc, this will inform the decisions that we make.
We may stay in a job that we don’t really enjoy and convince ourselves that we are ‘lucky’ and ‘happy’ because everyone else sees us as successful and congratulates us on doing so well. The thought of stepping away from a well paid, secure job, especially when you have a family and bills to pay can be unimaginable or seem impossible but ultimately if we are subconsciously hiding the truth from ourselves and not listening to our intuition – we will eventually create a catalyst for change.
Living these philosophies and setting an intention towards following my bliss means that I am constantly seeking to listen to what my body and environment is telling me. If I am late for something, miss my plane, get sick or have someone change plans on me – I ask myself the question why I have created it and what it is enabling me to do or preventing me from doing.
I don’t believe that there is such a thing as self sabotage, I think our subconscious is constantly creating experiences to show us what we really want in our lives and it is up to us to listen.
I know people who have recovered from cancer and as a result completely changed their lifestyle and diet and also allowed themselves to do what they love doing without any guilt.
I know people who’s partners have‘cheated’on them and come to the realisation that they no longer wanted to be in the relationship but were fearful of being the ‘bad’ person by leaving. They realised that they energetically pushed their partner away so that they would fulfil their role perfectly and create a situation where they could both be free of the relationship.
As humans we are extremely good at hiding how we really feel from ourselves and not listening to what our bodies and environments are telling us.
When you are in fear-less flow you can effortlessly attract in exactly what you need to continue in that space. It is your fears and limiting beliefs that create the glass ceilings and block your ability to create.
In the short term if you can identify what you love doing and are passionate about and do more of it while still continuing with your current reality, you will start attracting opportunities and people that will assist on your journey into following your bliss and being in your authentic flow.
“每天醒来，不管发生了什么，我都知道我在追求我喜欢做的事情，这些事情对我很有影响，我会花时间和我爱的人在一起，享受他们的生活。” 工作和生活的挺好平衡之一，就是找到你全身心热爱的工作并坚持啊。
小耐姐也是非常幸福，可以帮助中国职场人走向国际化。你们负责清空购物车，我负责提升大家的全球化思维和品位，一时间触及很新的资讯。
你的业余生活怎么过？欢迎后台留言吐槽。
